How to ask her out

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How to ask her out

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    hopelessromantic012
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    August 27, 2015 at 3:05 am #84863
    How to ask her out

    I like this girl that works to the GameStop I always go to. I wouldn’t say that I’m a regular customer, but I do go there enough where she notices my voice on the phone. When I go to gamestop, she always mention something about how I could never prank call her because she knows my voice to well. I always get this vibe that’s she is flirting with me, but idk if she’s lesbian or not. I wouldn’t even know how to ask that and ask her on a date. I really can’t stop thinking about her, What we could be. But, I don’t really have my life together at the moment, and that might be a turn off for her. (She looks like she could be older that me, I’m 21). What should I do? I’m not a shy person, but when it comes to girls I like, I get very nervous and shy. I try to break the ice by telling jokes(that just my personality, I’m always laughing and telling jokes). How should I find out if she’s gay? Should I ask her out? If so to where? Because I have no clue.


    Jersey_x3
    Participant
    September 21, 2015 at 10:22 pm #85666

    This may sound creepy, but just ask around. Take notes, see if she knows anyone who you happen to know, and be honest with them when asking. I think that a good starting point. Also try to add her on Facebook, or some other social media and start a convo there. I find it way easier than in person


    hopelessromantic012
    Participant
    September 27, 2015 at 2:18 pm #86011

    The other day, I finally got the courage to semi ask her out ( I told her she’s a cool person, and we should hang out sometime). And she said sure I know right. As I was leaving she smiled, waved at me, and told me see you soon. Does she seem interested in me? How should I follow up on this? What should I say to her when I see her again. Should I ask for her number? And where should we hang out? Is it too soon to go to her house? I really like her, and I don’t want to mess this up. So any ideas or tips are welcomed.


    chou
    Participant
    September 27, 2015 at 10:40 pm #86024

    true story. this guy came into a game-stop i was shopping in. and he was subtlety putting the moves on one of the young workers. it was obvious they were flirting. anyway about five minutes later when the guy had left the store. the manager pulled the girl aside and told her off very nicely. it was real awkward to watch.

    the following week I also saw the game stop employee in the food court with her boyfriend.

    moral of the story. don’t ask a girl out at her work place. its so awkward and she has to be nice to you. so your putting her and yourself in a real awkward position. girls also love to flirt and for all you know she might have a boyfriend.

    best thing to do is try and bump into her outside of working hours. and just flat out tell her your interested in getting to know her. at worst shell be flattered by the attention. girls love attention. coffee or bowling i guess would be good date


    Anonymous
    September 28, 2015 at 9:56 am #86045

    Just ask her out and see what happens. From my personal experience i can tell you that girls like confident men.


    Daniel22
    Participant
    October 8, 2015 at 12:55 am #86682

    Go for it

    Xiomn
    Xiomn
    Participant
    October 9, 2015 at 9:27 am #86740

    Something simple “Hey i think you’re pretty cute and I was wondering If maybe I could get your number?” Maybe throw in a “I’d like to take you out sometime” at the end too.


    Anonymous
    October 12, 2015 at 8:07 am #86760

    Don’t worry go for it


    planner123
    Participant
    March 14, 2016 at 1:03 pm #95587

    Just be yourself and be confident, it’ll work a treat!