How to Proceed???

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How to Proceed???

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    caligurl246
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    August 15, 2017 at 2:01 am #145506
    How to Proceed???

    I’ve currently been dating this guy for about 5 months and he’s really sweet and hot. The only thing is that our relationship is a secret mainly because of his family’s tradition of arranged marriage. AKA we have no chance of a future together, because he intends to proceed with an arranged marriage in the future. On the other hand, he still wants to continue this relationship with me, even though his parents would 100% not approve of me and he follows his parents’ decisions. He keeps talking about the future we could’ve had together, which breaks my heart because i don’t understand why he wants to continue if he’s not going to commit completely. My feelings about our love are fading, but right now we’re temporarily long distance and I want to break up with him face to face. He keeps asking if I love him, and I don’t know how to respond… He’s coming back in a week and he already bought me a gift. How do I remain neutral before we meet???


    caligurl246
    Participant
    August 15, 2017 at 2:02 am #145507

    By the way, we are currently in school, which is why our parents’ word holds quite a bit of weight


    anna9313
    Participant
    August 15, 2017 at 2:55 am #145511

    If you want to end it face to face, the best thing you can do is talk without emotion for now. Dont tell him that you love him back. Just try to make it a one sided conversation while you still converse with him. This can be done by giving short answers such as yes, no, maybe,etc…
    When he comes back try and dont let your emotions overwhelm you. Think with you mind and not your heart!!
    Goodluck my dear xx hope all goes well