How to pursue a guy via e-mail in a non-creepy/pushy way?

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How to pursue a guy via e-mail in a non-creepy/pushy way?

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    Lena
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    May 23, 2013 at 3:48 pm #31966
    How to pursue a guy via e-mail in a non-creepy/pushy way?

    I met this guy at a work seminar and we really hit it off. We are originally from the same area, have a lot of common interests, laughed with each other, etc. We exchanged information and I shot him an e-mail saying it was nice to meet him, shared some links relevant to topics we had discussed, and told him to give me a call if he was ever in the area again (he lives a quite a distance from me). I sent the e-mail a week ago and have not heard back from him yet. I also added him on LinkedIn to which he has also not responded.

    How long should I wait before I send another e-mail? Should I send another e-mail at all?

    In addition, I will be in the town he lives in this coming weekend visiting friends, who it turns out are also friends/acquaintances of his. Should I try to make some sort of connection while I’m there?

    I am very interested in this guy and I definitely do not want to creep him out or be too pushy. My girlfriends all over analyze things way too much so I thought I’d ask the wide world its opinion. Thanks for any input! I truly appreciate it