I AM CONFUSED

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I AM CONFUSED

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  • shydater
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    June 5, 2017 at 1:04 pm #138445
    I AM CONFUSED

    I work with a cute guy. We were extremely flirtatious with one another so much so that other people picked up on it. We matched on a gay dating app and then a couple weeks later matched on Tinder. I was under the impression that we both then like one another, but the conversation was drying up and I was becoming bored of just flirting at work.

    I took it upon myself to lay down my feelings and sent him a message on Tinder (I’m way too shy for face to face) explaining that I fancied him. He said he already knew that and I then asked if he felt the same way about me and his response was “not at all”.

    If you knew that somebody liked you and you knew within yourself that you didn’t like them back then why would you flirt with them?! Why would you match on two different dating apps?!

    I feel so angry and confused. I just want to know what he was possibly thinking?

    Any help?

    Thank you