I am wanting to know if any women would date a guy like me?


I am wanting to know if any women would date a guy like me?

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    March 6, 2018 at 10:00 am #166844
    I am wanting to know if any women would date a guy like me?

    I am 5’11” 450 lbs obese and on disability getting 800$ a month to live on because of PTSD and Rheumatoid Arthritis unable to work. I pay my bills and don’t need money from anyone. I support myself fine. I have been obese my entire life since the age of 5, around 15 I hit 400 lbs and haven’t been able to lose it no matter what I ate, how I ate and what I did. The weight won’t come off. I have never been under 400 lbs in my entire life. I am 37 years old now. I been single my whole life and have been harshly rejected even down to being told I needed to kill myself. I have been catfished and lead on for months by a few women who turned out to be married and didn’t really want me.

    I am just wondering where I stand and if any women would really be interested in a guy like me.

    March 10, 2018 at 5:38 pm #167178

    Don’t dwell on that my man. You kick yourself off the game with the attitude of “will any woman accept me”. I can imagine where it comes from but I will never know cause you are the one living it. But what I can tell you is that you as any other girl are human beings.
    Yeah being obese is not a plus, but still, you are just like anybody else. All people are relative in their imperfections. So if a girl doesn’t want you, then find another one. And if a girl told you to kill yourself, then she is not decent of a human being who is definitely not worth your time.
    I advise you focus on other activities in your life and leave this part to when it comes. If you don’t have many activities, create ones. Art, music, reading, getting healthy. Women love a man passionate man, or to be precise humans love passion.

    All the best wishes.