I can't tell if he likes me back

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I can't tell if he likes me back

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    AndrewArmstrong
    AndrewArmstrong
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    April 5, 2016 at 11:08 pm #97146
    I can't tell if he likes me back

    So, I’ve been in a close knit internet friend group since august and the only two guys in the group are a guy named Dan and I. Because of this, we became close and I know things about him that the others don’t. Around December, I realized that I started to have feelings for him. He’s a naturally flirty person, so he’s flirted with me, but he also occasionally flirts with girls (even though he’s gay). Recently in a group chat, I mentioned someone I had been ‘shipped’ with by some other friends. When I did, he didn’t talk for a second, then replied with “o”. How can I tell if he has feeling for me other than platonic?


    Un1c0rnOfL0v3
    Participant
    April 6, 2016 at 1:41 pm #97177

    Phew …. , That definitely reminds me of myself :s , Did you meet him in reallife yet ?

    JanaG
    JanaG
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    April 6, 2016 at 3:39 pm #97198

    How is his body language when you are together?

    AndrewArmstrong
    AndrewArmstrong
    Participant
    April 7, 2016 at 9:10 am #97225

    I’ve not met him in person, he lives halfway across the country.


    Sion
    Participant
    April 7, 2016 at 11:25 am #97292

    Yeah as JanaG said, Body language is a big thing and eye placement is one. But if you’ve not met him in person then there isnt really much you can do but hope for more detailed chats in the future if you know what I mean ;). I think you need to just keep talking to him and see where it goes ^^ don’t put yourself on one man tho, theres billions more of us 🙂


    Un1c0rnOfL0v3
    Participant
    April 7, 2016 at 1:18 pm #97304

    Oh I feel you so hard man xD I have the same situation with a girl from another country right now.
    I think that if you feel like you’re making him “jealous” if you tell him about meeting other guys and you can tell that he is upset after that then there definitely is a strong sympathy , I am not quite sure if one can get proper sexual attraction to someone they haven’t met but I definitely hope so and I guess it depends on the kind of mindset a person has. I think you should just proceed as Sion said and try to meet him in the near future so that you can actually see what’s going on 🙂