I can't tell if he's interested…

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I can't tell if he's interested…

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    ashleysv
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    July 9, 2014 at 12:38 am #56973
    I can't tell if he's interested…

    Background: met this guy online. We talk on the phone and text daily. We’ve had one date.

    Lately, he hasn’t been as flirty as he was in the beginning. He used to call me “Princess” or “Sweetheart”, etc. He’s always the first to text me, but the conversations are so boring. He’ll give me one word answers or the convos die, and he won’t respond to my texts until hours later.

    I simply cannot tell if he’s interested or not. On one hand he’s the one to text me first, on the other, he doesn’t really seem to have an interest at all while we’re texting! He used to text me goodnight and now he doesn’t. He hasn’t even responded to my last text message and I’m so tempted to send him a text telling him that I don’t feel he’s obligated to text me anymore if he doesn’t have any interest.

    Advice?


    Anonymous
    August 20, 2014 at 3:54 pm #59751

    I think a face-to-face meet up would be beneficial to you both! Try to “DTR” (determine the relationship). Ask him what he wants. I find that reading into someone’s emotions does no good — just be direct. I know it’s scary but it’ll be 100% worth it!


    kajla00007
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    August 21, 2014 at 6:35 am #59770

    You should meet him..and ask him whats the problem.Be direct.

    funnygirl123
    funnygirl123
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    August 21, 2014 at 7:47 am #59771

    I agree that meeting up in person would be beneficial. I mean, you’re obviously interested in this person, so to recapture the fullness and reopen the door of opportunity, meeting up seems like a fair option. Spending time with him, getting to know his hobbies, his likes and dislikes, his dreams, and his favourite band/s…. try not to worry so much and just relax. Be you. And have fun with this. I mean, you just met right? Your future is not determined by how many times a guy texts you. GO FOR IT!
    As for finding out if he is interested in seeing you again [meaning; dating you] then maybe at the end of the date, or mid way even [make sure that you are both comfortable with each other first. Laughing, joking around, talking in depth], there is nothing wrong with coming straight out and asking him if he is “interested”.
    Do not stress if he says he doesn’t know yet. That may just mean that he is still deciding, and gives out the opportunity to trial.

    GO FOR IT! BE YOU! LY <3