I don't know how to proceed

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I don't know how to proceed

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    Takumi Usui
    Participant
    March 2, 2014 at 12:29 pm #48666
    I don't know how to proceed

    Met this girl online.

    We start talking and soon she gives me her number.

    I told her I’m looking not to rush into a relationship, but go into a slow type one.

    She agreed and said she’s simply looking for friends.

    After two months of talking I went on a date with her. It was fun, but short.

    We plan to go on another.

    She knows I like her and she likes me to.

    But I have this zombie app and I made her profile pic look like a zombie.

    I told her id kill her if she came to me looking like that.

    She replied, “like wise buddy that’s what true friends do.”

    I don’t believe in the friendzone fiasco. I just want to know if this is going somewhere and what I should do.

    She and I just got out of a relationship around the same time which is 2-3 months ago

    alex@NextRSHIP
    alex@NextRSHIP
    Participant
    March 3, 2014 at 4:40 pm #48720

    You two are both fresh out of a relationship.

    There are still reservations in pursuing a relationship.

    You did tell her that you weren’t looking for anything serious yet you’re worried about being in the friendzone.

    I think you need to figure out what you want out of this “friendship”. If you want to pursue more, than you need to change your frame around her. Your demeanor is such that you two are just friends so she’s responding in kind.

    -Alex


    lilmissraincloud
    Participant
    March 5, 2014 at 1:26 am #48805

    you have to decide 1st what you want before you stress yourself on where it is goin. dont expect to tell someone you dont want a relationship then expect them to hang out waitin for one to happen. be honest an go from there.