I don't know what to do..

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I don't know what to do..

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    kg1997
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    March 2, 2015 at 4:34 pm #74522
    I don't know what to do..

    So my girlfriend and I have been dating for a little over six months now and until about a month ago everything was perfect. Now it seems we are stuck in this pattern of fighting breaking up and getting back together. Here’s what is going on..

    About a month ago my girlfriend received a text from E. He said he had a weird question and the question ended up being “how big do you think my dick is?” Well she denied everything but after talking to him as her he sent nudes he had and all of this stuff. Well you can see why this caused problems. I don’t trust her anymore. She has lied to me 5 or 6 times about her past. I don’t understand why, I have told her time and time again that what she did in the past doesn’t change my view of her. We are stuck in this pattern now of fighting, breaking up, and getting back together. I don’t know what to do. I really do love her but I can’t get past this. I don’t know if I can much less how to rebuild trust with her. What should I do? Thanks

    Sami
    Sami
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    March 8, 2015 at 6:09 pm #75013

    Something I red one day: 90% of the times a man feels he was betrayed… He was right.
    If you don’t trust her, you should really think about your relationship.

    The situation you describe shows that she doesn’t make herself respected. What kind of person allows that kind of conversation? If she was decent, she would put an end to it after receiving the very first text from E. on that subject. But she actually allowed him to send pictures…
    Get out of it! At least you will be the one putting an end to the relationship.