I don't know what to do about my crush

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I don't know what to do about my crush

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    inesziou
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    May 2, 2016 at 12:36 pm #99446
    I don't know what to do about my crush

    So I’ve been texting with this guy for 3 weeks now. We have a lot in common and I’m really starting to like him, but I feel like I’m the only one making moves. From the start, I was the one who initiated the first conversation we had and I’m also the one who started every other convos. But when we text, he’s really into it, he asks me questions and it’s not a one sided conversation. We talked face to face once when we walked together after school and I really liked it. It was a little awkward (but it’s understandable, we had never talked face to face) but still nice and when we were saying goodbye, he opened his arms and hugged me. Does it mean that he likes me back or is he just really friendly and saw this as two friends walking together? We’ve texted since, but I feel like we’re always talking about the same things and it’s not going anywhere. I wanna stop the small talk and really get into deeper conversations with him but I don’t know how to do that. Help me, I want it to work.


    Jack Henson
    Participant
    May 2, 2016 at 11:35 pm #99544

    He definitely likes you. Try backing off for a bit and see what he does– wait for him to initiate.

    Stella07
    Stella07
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    May 15, 2016 at 11:09 am #100437

    Stop texting him on your own and wait for him to initiate. If he is really into you then he will be worried you are losing interest and start trying to get your attention by texting you on his own. If he doesn’t text you on his own, he was probably playing you this whole or not interested in a real relationship. But you won’t know until you stop initating for a while.


    elmo3334
    Participant
    May 20, 2016 at 10:46 am #100855

    I’ll agree with everyone else. He probably likes you, but you got to put him to the test. Let him try and initiate.