I don't trust my boyfriend

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I don't trust my boyfriend

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  • Mia500
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    April 23, 2017 at 8:26 am #134089
    I don't trust my boyfriend

    I am in college and met a boy at orientation before the semester even started. We have talked ever since, and our into our second semester together. It’s been about 5 months now.
    The problem is, when I talk to him I get the suspicion that he tells people personal things I say and do. Like one time I said “I feel really sensitive” and the next day these mean girls were saying “She’s just really sensitive” as I walked by in a mocking voice. Another time he was sending me pictures while driving, and I said “you could die like that” (more as a joke) and out of the blue my friends came up to me that same day and said “While you drive you could DIE!”
    He is very timid, which makes me hope he’s too nice to do this. But I also feel that it could be a part of him not being able to express how he feels to me, so he tells others. I’ve asked him several times if he shares my business with others, and he says no. What do I do? Should I leave him?


    dressingup
    Participant
    April 23, 2017 at 3:55 pm #134105

    Some guys talk to much


    macdaddybunz
    Participant
    April 23, 2017 at 10:36 pm #134110

    If you have a gut feeling that he is then maybe it’s time to peace the heck out. Always trust your gut instinct.

    richiro
    richiro
    Participant
    April 24, 2017 at 12:21 pm #134181

    yeah trust your instinct here.


    confusedgirl1106
    Participant
    April 25, 2017 at 8:57 pm #134395

    Go with ur gut feeling… It’s usually right…


    dancinggirl
    Participant
    May 1, 2017 at 1:06 pm #135011

    He doesn’t sound very mature or caring enough about your feelings/relationship.

    He seems pretty weak and wants to be liked by others. Too much. At your expense and at the expense of your relationship.

    You don’t trust him.

    You are right.

    He is not worthy of your trust.

    Yes, leave him.