"I feel like I talk to you too much"

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"I feel like I talk to you too much"

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    Carmela
    Carmela
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    August 12, 2017 at 11:26 am #145233
    "I feel like I talk to you too much"

    Alright, so I have been messaging w/ a guy for a few months now, who lives on the other side of the country.

    I feel as though there is definitely an attraction… but I have never met the guy in real life! Last week, he messaged me out of nowhere that he “feels like he interacts with me/comments on stuff too much for someone he doesn’t know in real life”.

    We met in a Fbook group about politics, so I responded with “Lol, I agree, but it’s really fun discoursing with you”… he then proceeded to say, “I feel like I interact with too many avatar-people I’ve never met in real life these days”.

    How do I interpret this? Yes I know, I’m in love with a guy I have never met in person and I realize the repercussions. Am I being desperate? Is there meaning to his aforementioned message? He still messages me everyday with playful banter. How do I move the relationship forward when he lives so far away? Skype?


    BenClar
    Participant
    August 12, 2017 at 1:00 pm #145234

    I think I might get where he’s coming from. He’s found a connection with you that’s unlike most of his other online interactions and he’s not sure how to handle it. He probably wishes he could find the same connection in person. Yeah, Skype would be your best option until your able to meet up face to face.

    Carmela
    Carmela
    Participant
    August 12, 2017 at 1:37 pm #145236

    Thank-you! Will try and set up a Skype session with him.


    rw005
    Participant
    August 13, 2017 at 10:58 am #145250

    Give it sometime and talk to him 🙂

    phoenixshikhar
    phoenixshikhar
    Participant
    August 14, 2017 at 2:07 am #145261

    Arrange a date! meet that person how often we fall for such thing, it’s rare go for it!!!!

    richiro
    richiro
    Participant
    August 14, 2017 at 11:19 am #145365

    although very easy to do and very common today – yes you’er jumping the gun way too much. You can’t “love” somebody youv’e never met, most especially if you haven’t known them that long. What your’e “in love” with is the character you’ve created in your head representing him. Now I’m not saying it’s impossible – internet romances have sparked millions of times over the years – but FAR MORE have been farses and not worked out. So beware. Tone it down. take your time. and meet first (and more than once) to conclude.

    As to how to interpret his latest comments. I’m not sure. He may be trying to wiggle off the hook. He may be going thru somethign in his life. I’m not sure. YOu’ll just have to keep communicating and see what his continual reaction to you is to find out.