I have a crush on al old friend far away, help!

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I have a crush on al old friend far away, help!

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    Stanjoe
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    July 1, 2016 at 5:13 pm #104325
    I have a crush on al old friend far away, help!

    I developed a crush on an old friend from 4 years back and I think I do truly love her but she moved far across the city and goes to a separate school. She is not on any social media but I really want to contact her again. I dream of her sometimes and it hurts to know there is no way to see her. I know in which part of the city but it is too far to go and it takes a bit of a while to get there. What I need are solutions to how I can get in contact with her without being to intrusive or appear to be like a stalker. I want more of a “coincidental” rigged first meeting. Also, I develloped a crush on her for who she was and I truly believe she still possesses those good characteristics. Please help!


    lilyvalley
    Participant
    July 2, 2016 at 7:56 pm #104348

    I have a q, why didn’t you tell her when she was close?


    Love Explained
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    July 3, 2016 at 10:09 pm #104360

    Absence makes the heart grow fonder. It’s interesting how you feel like you love her now that she is not around. Your feelings now are being created by dreams instead of the reality of her in person. Careful, the reality might not live up to the dreams.
    Back to your problem. You have to take a chance with your emotions if you want to be with someone. Whether you are walking across a dance floor, asking someone on a date or looking them up. Either she is worth the chance or not. If she is, tell her that when you talk to her.
    There is a book out called Love-Explained that could help.


    Stanjoe
    Participant
    July 5, 2016 at 7:56 am #104326

    I have a crush on an* old friend far away, help!


    Stanjoe
    Participant
    July 5, 2016 at 7:58 am #104355

    I didn’t know I had a crush on her then, it was only 4 years later that I realised how I truly felt.