I like a cashier girl but so many "obstacles" block me from talking to her


I like a cashier girl but so many "obstacles" block me from talking to her

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    November 26, 2017 at 5:47 pm #157373
    I like a cashier girl but so many "obstacles" block me from talking to her

    I’m in my late 20s & never had a girlfriend nor asked anyone out whether successful or not. Once I had a chance in high school which had a high chance she feel the same way but I blew it by not acting. I had a dream in which a girl, who may have been attracted to me, kissed me on the cheek & felt my heart beat fast for a moment. I felt happy but it was just a dream and in reality I’m a…wimp.

    I have been shy for most of my life so that didn’t help and every time I want to tell her something I panic and either say a one liner which means nothing or I stay quiet. On thanksgiving I had seen her in a different way. She was looking good for thanksgiving & I thought she looked beautiful, but I didn’t say that. I felt it would be weird if I say it out loud with other customers around and behind me. I don’t know a thing about her and my lack of courage prevents me to change that. I am so focused on how to talk to her I don’t focus on what her name is. I don’t want to be single forever.

    November 28, 2017 at 6:56 pm #157672

    I think you should try to be happy with yourself before trying to get (over)confident. From your post you seem like a genuine guy and that’s something a lot of girls will appreciate. Make sure you have a hairstyle/clothingstyle which make you feel confident, some people just have a certain clothing style because that’s the type of clothes they have. Go to the store and try some outfits and find one, or a few, which you really like! If you feel happy with the way you dress you feel a little more confident right away. When it comes to talking to girls its really just a matter of just doing it, I know its easy said but hard to do, but sometimes you just got to go outside of your comfort zone. Always keep in mind that there’s a possibility that you get rejected, but that’s a chance you gotta take. There’s no success without failure. I hope you find your way, good luck.

    November 29, 2017 at 9:41 pm #157819

    It sounds like you are having a really hard time. There’s lots of online training that can help you build confidence. Women can tell real confidence for just a show. Just because you have been shy your whole life, doesn’t mean you need to stay that way. There are very powerful tools, like EFT tapping that you can learn, for free online to move through some of the obstacles you are experiencing. I wish you the very best in happiness and love!