I like be best friend, but it's complicated.

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I like be best friend, but it's complicated.

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    kinggyboy
    kinggyboy
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    January 12, 2015 at 3:17 pm #70339
    I like be best friend, but it's complicated.

    So, when I joined the military I met this guy. We have been living in the same building for about 6 months and I thought he was straight so I never tried anything than some flirting, even though I thought he was really cute.
    We both get along really well, have the same sort of personality, like the same things and I kind of started to really like him. Still never did anything because I thought he was straight.
    We came back from our Christmas holidays this week and I found out that he was making out with the guy while he was away (possibly even had sex with him). Now im convinced hes not gay and I really want to try and start something.

    We hang out a lot out side of work, like going for coffee and movies and and that but it never really feels like a date or anything.
    I guess my question is, how can I make a move. I’m the only person he has told about his experience with another guy and I don’t want to ruin a great friendship but the possibility of a relationship is to tantalising


    Vince27
    Participant
    January 13, 2015 at 10:48 pm #70537

    Just play it cool. Making subtle motives would be great because it could send a message to your best friend and if he’s really into it, he’ll grab those motives. 🙂

    kinggyboy
    kinggyboy
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    January 15, 2015 at 3:13 pm #70743

    What’s an example of a subtle motive??