I like my best friend, what should to do?

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I like my best friend, what should to do?

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    padfoot14
    padfoot14
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    September 16, 2014 at 11:22 pm #62042
    I like my best friend, what should to do?

    So I (I’m a guy) recently started college and made two best friends (both girls). Us three literary do everything together, movies, dinners, etc. We have a shit ton of inside jokes and all get along extremely well its pretty awesome. But the reason I ever approached them was bc I was attracted to one of them, and then as I met her and her friend I found an unexpected, genuine friendship. For a while, just being friends satisfied me, but lately the more I get to know her and hang out with her, the more I like her. Idk if she feels the same way or not, and even if she did I’m scared that it might ruin the friendship in the long run should things go ill. I’ve never met anyone like her though, sometimes I wish I could meet her again under different circumstances. What should I do?


    prongs
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    September 17, 2014 at 12:05 am #62048

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    steevo23
    steevo23
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    September 18, 2014 at 5:38 am #62095

    How long has your friendship been going on for? Do you ever hang out with the one you like alone? Do you have any signs or anything that she may feel the same in the slightest?


    loops
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    September 18, 2014 at 6:38 pm #62228

    I would also look for signs that she may feel the same way. This may be in the form of body language etc. It’s always such a difficult thing to do but if you feel that it may be reciprocated then sometimes the best approach is to just be bold and express your feelings. Girls usually like confidence.