I messed up our first date and not sure if he's still interested

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I messed up our first date and not sure if he's still interested

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    thewanderer
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    March 6, 2014 at 12:22 am #48841
    I messed up our first date and not sure if he's still interested

    we had been talking and texting consistently for 2 months started off as online friends but then we got attracted to each other. We shared things about our past marriage and got along very well. We decided to meet up when he moved into my city and it was bad. His charms caught me off guard hence all of my confidence just went poof. We had sex that night and then things suddenly got awkward between us for 2-3 days later until we decided to talk about it. He told me that he’s just trying to figure me out because of how I acted ( not talkative like I did on texts and phone, kept distance , being awkward etc) , he thought he did something wrong and assumed I didn’t like him and the silence treatment was to give me space and opportunity to back out. I apologized and explained to him about my dating anxiety after my last marriage and I’d like to redeem myself if he’d let me and he said he’d like to but things are still a little awkward between us and I’m not sure if he’s still interested?


    mummypet38
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    March 7, 2014 at 5:50 pm #48959

    holle dear


    bbbcnstafl
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    March 7, 2014 at 9:03 pm #48963

    Guys are a lot simpler than women. Call him and tell him how much you like him. That way he’ll know he is desired and will feel more comfortable around you.