I need advice about the girl I've been seeing. Should I tell her?

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I need advice about the girl I've been seeing. Should I tell her?

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    BeckyLynn
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    August 21, 2017 at 12:54 am #146222
    I need advice about the girl I've been seeing. Should I tell her?

    So I recently started dating this amazing girl and I am starting to have really strong feelings for her. In fact, I am falling in love with her but I’m scared that she may not feel the same way or that telling her this will scare her off. We’ve been talking for a month, dating for 2 weeks and I don’t want to tell her too soon as it might not be the right time. But at the same time, I can no longer ignore how I feel about her and feel that I’m kind of lying to myself as well as her by not saying anything. What should I do?

    yesha20
    yesha20
    Participant
    August 22, 2017 at 3:26 am #146399

    I think it would be nice if you’d tell her what you feel so. It’s better that you know if she has also some feelings for you or not so you’d know whether to continue or not.


    Vitdlc
    Participant
    November 21, 2017 at 10:58 am #157079

    I feel as if you’re ready there’s no reason to wait :)) if she feels the same wonderful and if not it’s her loss.


    jeffb883
    Participant
    November 22, 2017 at 10:02 pm #157267

    Agree with the above two

    dangthaidhkt999
    dangthaidhkt999
    Participant
    November 28, 2017 at 9:03 pm #157684

    follow your heart tell you! … boldly on you!

    Matt83S
    Matt83S
    Participant
    January 1, 2018 at 7:57 am #161142

    Tell her how you feel. Dont tell her you love her because this may scare her love is very misunderstood many people mistake love for an emotional attachment. But tell her that you have feeling for her and let her know


    acetopwon
    Participant
    January 2, 2018 at 9:11 am #161111

    Dude, take it slow. Its been only 2 weeks and it will scare her off and even seem a bit creepy on her side

    Just
    Just
    Participant
    February 11, 2018 at 3:33 pm #165247

    I think trust and communication are two of the most important aspects of any relationship. I personally told the girl I’m talking to that I loved her after a little over a month of talking. She wasn’t ready to say that back yet and I’ve never pressured her into it or made her feel bad for not being able to express the same things. Just don’t get your hopes up for her to be completely ready to take your relationship to the next level yet. Understand that she may need time, an that’s okay. Everyone works on their own timezone. But I don’t see harm in telling her how you feel.


    TheBoss
    Participant
    February 11, 2018 at 6:46 pm #165251

    It’s too soon for the L word! But definitely tell her you are developing strong feelings for her. Better to know now if you have a shot or if you’re wasting time trying to make her love you in return.


    missmaris
    Participant
    February 12, 2018 at 1:41 am #165256
    Reply To: I need advice about the girl I've been seeing. Should I tell her?

    I think it is lovely that you have these feelings. I would tell her. There is no time like the present. You will admire your honesty and that you can man up about it. I say go for it. !!


    justme1990
    Participant
    February 12, 2018 at 12:22 pm #165335
    Reply To: I need advice about the girl I've been seeing. Should I tell her?

    just tell her how you feel


    NoobToLove
    Participant
    March 12, 2018 at 8:53 am #167202
    Reply To: I need advice about the girl I've been seeing. Should I tell her?

    I agree, tell her, not for her but for you.


    veganangelofdoom
    Participant
    April 29, 2018 at 3:55 pm #171806
    Reply To: I need advice about the girl I've been seeing. Should I tell her?

    Go for it! Chances are she feels the same!


    adubthaman
    Participant
    April 29, 2018 at 11:14 pm #171813
    Reply To: I need advice about the girl I've been seeing. Should I tell her?

    I agree..You need to tell her