I need advice in a bad way

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I need advice in a bad way

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    southernbelle
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    June 11, 2015 at 7:50 pm #80707
    I need advice in a bad way

    Ok so I reconnected with a guy I had a crush on in High School. We are both in our early 20’s now. We went on a date over the weekend and ended up sleeping together. We have continued to talk to each other every day since then. We even hung out last night. I am crushing on him really hard. He told me that he could see us dating but it has been about 3 years since he’s been seriously involved with anyone and wants to take it slow. He even told his friends that he could easily date me. I need some guys input on what to do from here. I would really like to date him.


    Anonymous
    June 12, 2015 at 1:52 am #80711

    if you really love him and you think that he also love you, then you should continue your relationship and try to impress your boyfriend .


    chasequicken
    Participant
    June 12, 2015 at 2:53 am #80718

    it will happen eventually


    patokeen
    Participant
    June 13, 2015 at 2:00 am #80847

    It seem he is keen in having a relationship, in the mean time, make him feel special. Men don’t often get what they need from women in terms of feeling awesome. Appreciate him or just acknowledge something wonderful he has done in a way that nobody else already has. “Hey, I saw that pitch you made to the boss ⎯ way to go. I wish I had thought of that.”


    Hobbit Girl
    Participant
    June 15, 2015 at 2:57 pm #80973

    Being patient is key. If you feel that you have a connection, just give it more time, if he’s not ready. Believe me, I’ve been down that road myself.


    southernbelle
    Participant
    June 23, 2015 at 10:03 am #81341

    Should I just move on?


    southernbelle
    Participant
    June 23, 2015 at 10:03 am #81328

    Ok so I’m back to being confused again.

    He is in the military so hes been at drill from the 12th to the 28th of this month. I hung out with him on the 10th before he left to go to drill. We sat on the couch and watched a movie. He walked me to my car when it was over and kissed me goodnight. I asked him if I would be able to talk to him while he was at drill, he said when he had time he would text me. Well I haven’t heard from him but on the 17th, he found me and added me on snapchat. But he didn’t contact me like send me a snap or text me. So later that night I send him a text saying hey hope drill is going well. I still haven’t heard from him. What should I do? Should I drop him? Is he blowing me off? Or is he really just that busy?


    southernbelle
    Participant
    June 23, 2015 at 10:05 am #81395

    So I just wait for him????