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I need Advice/ So confused

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    Hopeless
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    November 2, 2017 at 6:34 am #154764
    I need Advice/ So confused

    I’m new here and I’m 37 female and with my guy he is 45, we have been together for 3 months, He is ex marine with PTSD and he only wants to have sex when he’s drunk which he only wants to get me from behind.. We don’t hug, kiss or show no affection so whatsoever.. I recently saw on his phone that he watches porn and yeah it bugs.. He can get off on that when he is sober but nothing with me.. Hmm makes me think… What did I do wrong honestly I’m starting to get sick and tired besides he also is a alcoholic and he so different when hes under the influence and when he is sober… I’m just confused, hurt, and don’t know what to do…. I also take care of him and stand by his side when he detoxs when I have to call 911 but yet I stay in the hospital with him… I’m a kind person with a big heart and I’m shown no appreciation unless he is drunk… Why??? I deserve to be happy but why do I stay? I’m scared if I leave he will do something and it will be my fault…

    Please help anybody????