I Need Some Advice.

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I Need Some Advice.

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    Zen
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    February 19, 2013 at 12:04 am #22940
    I Need Some Advice.

    A couple months ago i have met a nice girl that i think is perfect for me. We would hangout just about every day and there was no problems. The thing is she has had a boyfriend before me for about 3 years that has hurt her in many ways. I’m not that type of guy and i have told her that many times. All of a sudden she tells me she isn’t ready for a serious relationship because of that and that she thinks we should just stay friends. I don’t know where it went wrong and i need help. I feel like i can’t let her go like that. What is the best thing i could do if i want her to be happy?

    carlycatz
    carlycatz
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    February 19, 2013 at 6:31 pm #23099

    She’ll be happy if you listen to her. She said “she isn’t ready for a serious relationship because of that and that she thinks we should just stay friends.” Girls aren’t just making things up all the time to push away from somebody. Believe her. She just doesn’t want to be in a relationship right now. IF she needs time and space, give it to her… Be her friend, if/when she comes around, it’ll be nice if you’re still being a support system.


    hopeless1
    Participant
    October 13, 2016 at 12:02 pm #113996

    Just listen and be her friend.


    misschristy
    Participant
    October 13, 2016 at 3:16 pm #114028

    I agree just listen


    nightbird
    Participant
    October 13, 2016 at 10:17 pm #114073

    I would give her some space.
    Maybe this was all to fast

    After some time she might realize that she does really care for you.