I really need help. I really like this girl and don't know what to do.

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I really need help. I really like this girl and don't know what to do.

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    ARandomGuy
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    December 10, 2015 at 10:10 pm #89937
    I really need help. I really like this girl and don't know what to do.

    Soo there is this girl at my college. I see her around all the time and we usually say hi to each other. She seemed like she is interested in me, so one day i asked her if she wanted to go out on a date, but i freaked out and i told her i was late for class and if we can continue later. I see her a few days later and at this point i thought i messed up and i don’t have a chance with her, but she waved at me when i walked by, so i assumed she is interested. Yesterday i was standing there and she comes up to me and said she wanted to talk to me. The first thing she said was she just got out of a serious relationship (i don’t know when they broke up, but i know that they did go out for 4 years). Then she asks me how my day is going and we just walked and talked for about 10 minutes (we had a pleasent conversation. We were just getting to know each other). Before she left i gave her my number and i got hers. It has been 2 days since then and the semester is over. What should i do?


    arianna90
    Participant
    December 11, 2015 at 4:49 am #89943

    You should text her.Tell her to go out for a coffee and see how things go. If she wasn’t interested she wouldn’t tell you about her break up right away.


    ARandomGuy
    Participant
    December 11, 2015 at 8:34 am #89938

    Whoops i meant to type 1 day not 2 days


    ARandomGuy
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    December 11, 2015 at 8:34 am #89940

    Soo there is this girl at my college. I see her around all the time and we usually say hi to each other. She seemed like she is interested in me, so one day i asked her if she wanted to go out on a date, but i freaked out and i told her i was late for class and if we can continue later. I see her a few days later and at this point i thought i messed up and i don’t have a chance with her, but she waved at me when i walked by, so i assumed she is interested. Yesterday i was standing there and she comes up to me and said she wanted to talk to me. The first thing she said was she just got out of a serious relationship (i don’t know when they broke up, but i know that they did go out for 4 years). Then she asks me how my day is going and we just walked and talked for about 10 minutes (we had a pleasent conversation. We were just getting to know each other). Before she left i gave her my number and i got hers. It has been 1 day since then and the semester is over. Should i text her?


    peaceandlove
    Participant
    December 11, 2015 at 12:51 pm #89958

    Speaking as a woman who just got out of a serious relationship, I would say she is interested, but it is not going to be easy for her. She will want to take things slow, but the fact that she told you is a good sign. Perhaps text her and ask if she wants to hang out in a few days.


    ARandomGuy
    Participant
    December 25, 2015 at 3:01 pm #90500

    Thank you arianna90 and peaceandlove, you two gave me the confidence to text her.


    ARandomGuy
    Participant
    December 29, 2015 at 1:16 am #90630

    Thank you arianna90 and peaceandlove, you two gave me the confidence to text her