I think I broke the bro code

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I think I broke the bro code

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    Dreezo
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    June 2, 2016 at 12:22 pm #102012
    I think I broke the bro code

    I was on holiday with 3 other girls from my school and after getting drunk one night I fooled around with one them (let’s call her Eve), we were grown up about it and acted like nothing happened. 2 nights later, same thing happens and all is good.

    Problem is that back home I have a good friend who knows Eve and he is attracted to her. He hasn’t tried anything yet but Eve kinda knows that he likes her and he has told me that he does want to move to her soonish.

    I’m worried that I have betrayed his trust (especially since he is a really honest guy) and I don’t know if I should tell him what happened. It is fairly unlikely that he may find out but it is still a possibility. What do I do?


    RejectedOrNot
    Participant
    June 2, 2016 at 12:53 pm #102019

    Depends on the degree of “fooling around” you did and other members of your holiday hangout. If it’s just you and three other girls, and you “fooled around” pretty badly, yeah you should just tell him what happened. It’s better to confess than to get caught because that’s really going to ruin trust.


    Dreezo
    Participant
    June 2, 2016 at 1:01 pm #102024

    Might have misunderstood, but it was just the girl he liked. We didn’t fool very bad, Max was bit of bj but neither finished. Does being drunk help?


    RejectedOrNot
    Participant
    June 2, 2016 at 2:07 pm #102028

    If you think he wouldn’t mind if he found out it wouldn’t be a big deal but if he knows that you know he likes this girl, and he would be angry if he found out, it’s always okay to just tell him. Guys are understanding, dude.


    RejectedOrNot
    Participant
    June 2, 2016 at 2:07 pm #102029

    Just tell him if he’s gonna be mad. That’s the safest way to go.


    Dreezo
    Participant
    June 3, 2016 at 6:34 am #102072

    Thanks


    Anonymous
    June 4, 2016 at 11:38 am #102149

    Honesty is the best policy. Especially amongst friends 🙂