I think she (21 f) is pulling away from me (22 m) for over stepping the line.

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I think she (21 f) is pulling away from me (22 m) for over stepping the line.

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    likecoffee
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    January 29, 2016 at 6:36 pm #92442
    I think she (21 f) is pulling away from me (22 m) for over stepping the line.

    I’ve been talking to a girl for the past 5 weeks now. Recently we’ve been meeting up, first time at a party, second time she came over for dinner/watch a movie and third time was to hangout for an hour or so. At first she was really interested in me, talking into the night, being flirty and getting to know each other.

    Last weekend though just after I quit smoking my mind has been all over the place and I started acting over bearing with her over messages and being needy. This week she has been very distant, I would have to initiate all the conversations, she would take a long time to reply and would ignore some messages until I messaged again a day or two later. It’s literally the opposite how of how we have been talking for the past month.

    I asked if she would want to meet up this weekend, she said maybe but now she can’t. She suggested ‘maybe sometime in the next two weeks” So what do I do now? Cut off contact until she comes to me? Message her every few days? I’m unsure.


    yoga2424
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    January 30, 2016 at 9:59 am #92462

    Just give it time, don’t push anything. If she likes you she’ll come to you.


    stereotypical11
    Participant
    January 30, 2016 at 3:00 pm #92472

    Don’t be full on give her space she’ll wonder what you’re up to let her chase you x


    AbsoluteBeginner
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    February 1, 2016 at 9:04 am #92460

    Same as mine yeah bro. Id’ slow down the contact and only send another message after she has replied.Then in two or three weeks time depending on your level of comunication then i’d bring the subject of going out again.