I want another chance with a guy who rejected me. Do I have a chance?


I want another chance with a guy who rejected me. Do I have a chance?

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    April 16, 2018 at 9:48 am #170668
    I want another chance with a guy who rejected me. Do I have a chance?

    We were dating for about a month. It was great he was texting me all the time and wanted to see me all the time. We were also intimate pretty early. (I don’t think this should matter much but I need advice) After about a month he was distant. Firstly I confronted him about it but not in an attacking way just to get on the same page and he told me we weren’t seeing each other exclusively and things were getting serious with someone else. we werent exclusive from my side at first but then I stopped seeing the other guy. I didn’t think he was seeing anyone either because we didn’t talk about it and we spent a lot of time together. We weren’t in that stage yet but should I have said something to let him know how I was feeling? Or did I confront him pre maturely? Anyway, I really like him and I was going to text him again around the time of the World Cup with some friendly banter around his interests. I did let him know he could reach out if things didn’t work out, but I don’t want to sit around waiting for him when I really like this guy and is just scared to make a move. What if he doesn’t gauge how serious I am or think I may have change my mind. Things seem pretty new with the girl, and I don’t know anything about them, but I don’t have that much faith in it. Do I have a chance or should I leave him alone?

    April 16, 2018 at 3:17 pm #170765

    I dont think you did anything wrong but also don’t think you should pursue things further. You seemed pretty honest about things given the situtation and he gave you a response. Whether that was truthful or what you wanted to hear shouldn’t matter. If you were to keep on pursuing him in some fashion it could come off desperate. He could either ignore you or realize he could use you if he wanted to because of how much you’re s into him. Sorry if that’s not what you wanted to hear.

    April 23, 2018 at 5:25 pm #171443

    Let him go. If he is interested in someone else it won’t work out even if you express how serious you are. The truth is, as you expressed, things with this new girl are still new. It is a possibility that things won’t work out but he will have a new girl by that time too. It try to look at things like this as “what would I tell my friend to do” and in this situation it would be value yourself and your time. If it is meant to be then maybe he will hit you up, if not don’t stress it because there are other ones out there ( as cliche as that sounds). If he is not putting time in to be with you than he is not really worth your time especially after you have been straight forward and honest about what you want.

    April 25, 2018 at 11:27 am #171629

    It sounds like the best thing you could do right now is try to move on with your life. Get back to dating other people.
    This might also encourage him to think again about how he feels about you. If he wants to try again after seeing how happy you are elsewhere, great news, and you’ll be in a position of having options (always take care of number 1 first).