I Want Him Back But Don't Know what to Do

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I Want Him Back But Don't Know what to Do

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  • Lover94
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    July 6, 2017 at 9:57 pm #141388
    I Want Him Back But Don't Know what to Do

    I started dating this guy in Jan. Everything was great. Recently it’s been a little rocky because we don’t see each other as often. We both work 2 jobs and I get upset because sometimes I feel like he’s not even trying to make the effort to spend time. He told me he loved me and it took me a while to say it back but I realize I really do love him. At first I questioned if he really meant it but it’s not like he was pressuring me for sex at all so I believe he’s genuine. We eventually had sex after 5 months. Last week I got really mad at him because I hadn’t seen him in like 2 weeks and it led to a fight. I apologized after for making it a big deal. Havent talked to him since. A lot of times he says I don’t take him seriously or like I don’t really love him but I do and just have trouble really expressing my feelings. I love him and not ready to let this go. Should I reach out to him again? I don’t wanna look weak smh

    July 7, 2017 at 10:02 am #141389

    Your last words are telling. Perhaps you spend too much time trying to appear to be something you’re not? Be genuine and allow yourself to be loved for who you are. You don’t need to pretend to be someone else for your boyfriend.

    It worries me to hear that you don’t have sex very much. Does he have a porn habit? That’s like having another woman in the relationship. Sooner or later it will cause problems.

    I would try to sit down with him and open up about your fears, doubts and hopes for the two of you. You’ll find strength in exposing your vulnerabilities to him. That’s the first step…