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coldturkeyParticipantMarch 16, 2016 at 10:36 am #95808
Well I’m going to start dating again in 2 months time. Basically I need to lose some weight.I want to look the best that I can be since dating really is a visual thing and not just only about a person’s personality. I firmly believe that one needs to be attracted to the person 1st before even getting a chance to move things forward…like getting to really know them. When someone doesn’t view you as attractive…you don’t have a chance to even let your personality be shown….so basically I need to bring my A game because I have always been attracted to a certain type of guy but never felt that I even had a chance to approach them.Now…my self-esteem is at the best its ever been, I’m much happier now. I want to make sure that I put my best foot forward.Any advice?
Un1c0rnOfL0v3ParticipantMarch 16, 2016 at 11:40 am #95822
Uhm…. I would say that a guy who only judges by looks , even if its first impression , is an idiot and yes most guys do it but if you act like yourself something might just click in him and hes interested . That said , I hope you yourself don’t base your sympathy for that guy purely on looks but have a pretty decent idea about his personality already because otherwise you shouldn’t be surprised if he applies the same to you.
Working out is always a good thing though , in order to love someone else you first gotta love yourself.
coldturkeyParticipantMarch 17, 2016 at 9:20 am #95828
I know most women judge based on looks too…yes I know how very much a person’s personality really is the most important thing but 1st you have to be attracted to the person first. I have been e-mailing this one guy that I really am attracted to BUT based on our conversations…I know that I would only be a friend to him….I don’t believe I would be his type…that’s cool. I would like to meet him still at least anyways because based on our chats, he seems he would be a cool friend. I’m hoping to try to make a first impression on him…just to test the waters..I feel if I can at least be comfortable being around him..meeting him for the first time…then it will be easier for me to be more comfortable around more people that I do tend to meet face to face.
yeah yeah yeah I know all about loving yourself first before you love someone else…too bad a lot of people don’t take that to heart..hence the amount of toxic relationships out there…so sad..
bumblebee35ParticipantMarch 18, 2016 at 1:57 pm #96053
Just believe in yourself. If working out makes you feel good, do it. Put on what’s make you feel beautiful but always remember that, at the end of the day, let your true personality shine. Girls with individuality are sexy and charming! Good luck and think only positive thoughts!
AnonymousMarch 19, 2016 at 11:22 pm #96096
Don’t lose weight for a guy, do it for you! If he is the right person he will be there through the journey!
wldwtr555ParticipantApril 13, 2016 at 2:36 pm #97690
guys who only look at your exterior aren’t really worth meeting, they’ll only just want sex. Get out there and be yourself. You’ll attract a nice guy who likes you for who you are.
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