I Want to Make A Move on Him

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I Want to Make A Move on Him

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    heyguyz
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    July 4, 2016 at 6:59 am #104367
    I Want to Make A Move on Him

    I met a nice, attractive guy online, and we’ve been talking for months and have met in person. He texted me the other day, telling me he wants to see me again when I get back from a family trip.

    I’m a virgin, and he’s a lot more experienced than me. Awhile back he told me he wanted me, and I freaked out! I think I came across defensive and prudish. Since then, he never mentions sex or romance and I feel totally friend-zoned, but he still acts like he finds me really attractive, and still texts (but less often). I know sex is important to him, and I also know he’s into kinky stuff. I’ve secretly had fantasies about BDSM stuff for a long time, but I was too embarrassed to tell him. What’s a way I can discreetly mention I’m into the same stuff as him, and possibly spark his interest? Would it be too forward to ask him to cuddle with me as a way to maybe lead into fooling around? I really want to be in a relationship the first time I have sex, but I’m not against messing around a bit.