If He Hasn't Made A Move He's Not Interested Right?

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If He Hasn't Made A Move He's Not Interested Right?

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  • lilyvalley
    Participant
    August 6, 2016 at 5:10 pm #107720
    If He Hasn't Made A Move He's Not Interested Right?

    His grandma and I live in the same apt complex and her grandson comes there often, the thing is he’s made excuses to text me like did my grandma make it up ok? When he could just call his grandma. He’s asked randomly to send me exam prep material online he’s studying for too. In the beginning I asked to go out and it didn’t work out but we became friends again then he asked me to go eat, I’ve seen him glance in my apt direction when he goes to his grandmas. When I called him out from all the signs knowing he had a gf and I said a guy who has a gf can’t be interested in me and he said he said he wasn’t and that he had a gf he was happy with. One day he was giving me gym advice and said “don’t you have a bf to teach you all this?” and i catch him glancing over and looking a lot? What’s his deal? His parents also look and smile and fidget when they see me.People say friendly but why would he stare and look secretly?? Also, i don’t think the gf relationship is serious b/c no photos togethe


    lilyvalley
    Participant
    August 6, 2016 at 5:14 pm #107721

    on fb or ig and his relationship status is hidden and they’ve been together for 4 years already. He also doesn’t go to his grandmas when my car isn’t parked and i’m out of town(my roommate tells me)
    grandma isn’t sick or anything. He comes 3x a week to the apts. Can it still happen between us? when we got into the fight I said don’t message me again and i told him he’s the one chasing me. After the fight a year has passed and he saw me outside and looked and smiled at me. We’re both 26 btw
    Update: When he waits for his grandma to open the door( in front of my kitchen window) he fidgets with his phone and tries hard to not look at me but comes out facing me and looking to see if I’m there. His grandma was also worried when I was gone for a month and went out of her way to find out where I was by sending our neighbor to ask my roommate where i was. Yesterday I received a call from my own number(spoof call) and he didn’t show up yesterday. I’m assuming it was him thats why he didnt com


    lilyvalley
    Participant
    August 6, 2016 at 5:14 pm #107722

    didn’t come that day*


    uhunny
    Participant
    August 9, 2016 at 9:01 am #107809

    He might be interested but shy. The only way to know is to ask him.


    lxwz
    Participant
    August 23, 2016 at 8:49 am #109126

    Ask him what is really the deal with his girlfriend? If he says what do you mean? You respond with something like what you said about there’s No pics, it’s not on fb, etc… See what he says. Maybe they’re not really together, but he doesn’t want to look like a single loser. He probably figures it’s pretty obvious that he likes you, so sometimes guys, especially shy ones, will make up things like that because they’re too nervous of what you might think of the truth.


    helena
    Participant
    August 26, 2016 at 12:05 am #109693

    It doesn’t sound like he’s interested to me. He’s definitely attracted to you but not interested in perusing anything. He probably just likes to flirt a little for the attention and ego boost but isn’t going to cheat on his gf or leave her for you.


    louiselivvie
    Participant
    August 27, 2016 at 1:15 pm #109774

    Pursue your own interests and life, not his and he will soon realise


    lilyvalley
    Participant
    August 27, 2016 at 2:36 pm #109777

    @helena @louiselivvie there’s more to the story but thanks anyway


    lilyvalley
    Participant
    August 27, 2016 at 2:36 pm #109778

    @helena he’s really shy around me so not doing much flirting


    Anonymous
    August 27, 2016 at 2:45 pm #109779
    Reply To: If He Hasn't Made A Move He's Not Interested Right?

    Help please!
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    Regards, Roman