Ignored after the third date!


Ignored after the third date!

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    June 1, 2015 at 7:48 pm #79964
    Ignored after the third date!

    Hey everyone,

    Im 27 and new to online dating. I’ve also just started dating again after a few years of being single. I had a third date with a girl and it seemed to go alright in my eyes. So far we’ve only kissed. We sent a few texts back and forth after the date but shes completely ignored my last two texts for 5 days now. I realize there is a good chance this means shes not interested but is this normal in online dating for someone to completely cut you off when they are not interested? or did i probably do something to upset her?

    Should i send her another text?, I would really love to get some kind of closure on this instead of wondering. Sort of just feels like i’ve been tossed aside like something when you’re window shopping!

    June 2, 2015 at 10:29 pm #80043

    The last 2 women that I went on 4 dates with did this to me. I would like closure but there is nothing you can say to make her more likely to respond but perhaps this perspective will help you: Respect is a two way street. Anyone who treats people that way and can’t even send a text that would take one minute isn’t worth my time or deserve my respect. It won’t have worked out.

    June 3, 2015 at 11:51 am #80067

    This is pretty normal I’d say. You met online, meaning it is much easier for her to cut you off without explanation, since you have no other connection to her life. The threshold for shitty behavior is just lower on the web it seems, you’re more detached and don’t have to face the consequences of your actions. You probably didn’t do anything wrong, sometimes people just lose interest. You could try laying low for a while and see if she contacts you (maybe she just got a bit overwhelmed or stressed and wanted to tune out for a bit) but ask yourself if she’s worth it. Wouldn’t you rather date someone who was really interested in you?

    June 3, 2015 at 4:05 pm #80111

    What was your last text to her? If it’s something like “hey what’s up”… some times girls don’t reply to those 🙁

    I would send her one last text after no response for 5 days just saying something like “hey haven’t chat for a while, hope you are having a good week. Do you want to grab a drink this weekend? let me know.”

    See if she replies. If she doesn’t even bother respond as a mature person, she’s not worth your time.

    June 4, 2015 at 10:11 am #80143

    Have you tried giving her a call? I’m learning slowly but surely that not everyone is into texting. Especially when it’s a conversation that starts with like a “Hey”