I'm so timid and scared, some help will be nice


I'm so timid and scared, some help will be nice

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    June 5, 2015 at 1:05 pm #80320
    I'm so timid and scared, some help will be nice

    Some relevant things about me:
    I am a shy and timid guy but I have a big heart, I’m kind, the most generous person if you become my friend and I love to help people. I am turning 23 next week, I’m a medical student, mixed Japanese-Chinese, girls that liked me before used the words, “cute, handsome”, I never cheated, single.


    I have been in medical school for 4 years now. There is this girl that I met when I was in 2nd year, lets call her, “Aimee”. She is one of my friend’s sister and he introduced her to me.

    2 years later…

    We end up having the same schedule for one of our subjects. She texts me asking about some things about location, time, etc…
    She asks if we can meet somewhere before class starts because its hard to find, I said, “yes” and I was trying to be helpful.
    We met in the morning and I showed her where our class is.
    She went in first and went to the back of the class first but when I took my seat, she moved and sat next to me.

    June 5, 2015 at 1:06 pm #80321

    She texts me the next day saying that she can’t come to class because she wants to study for an exam. I offered to send her a presentation that I made on the subject. She seemed happy in the messages. I quote, “Awww thank you so much!!!!”, “You’re the best!!!!!!!!!”, “Love you!!!!!!!!”

    The next day, she passed her exam and texts me, “ I freakin love youuuuuuuuuu!!!!!. Got an A hehehehehehe. Yayyyyyy” and stuff like that.

    June 5, 2015 at 3:30 pm #80325

    Hi prumpin.

    First of all. Do you actually like this girl? or you like the fact that she’s gotten close to you? … has she ever said anything nice about something that’s not “school-related”?

    June 8, 2015 at 8:35 am #80322

    Aimee came to class late the next day and she sat across me in class. I tried to avoid looking at her because I was shy but after some time, I finally looked at her, smiled and waved. She had a big smile on her face as we greeted each other with smiles. I feel like she is looking at me when I’m not looking, our eyes meet again and she has another big smile. After that, I realize that she starts becoming a little flirty. She knows that I’m looking at her from time to time, she puts cute faces on when listening to the lecturer and flicks her hair from time to time. When class ended, someone needed help with the computers in class so I went, she poked me from behind and told me that she was going, we said our good byes.

    June 8, 2015 at 8:35 am #80324

    Later on, she starts texting me. She tells me that she still many exams left and needs help with clinical anatomy. We continued to have conversations on her upcoming exams and planning for her clinical anatomy. I send her pictures of my notes. She thanks me then she starts another conversation. She asked me where I’m from and what other languages I speak. I ask her about her, she tells me some things about her.
    She says she’s going to go study, we say our good byes.