I'm Super Afraid I've Ruined It


I'm Super Afraid I've Ruined It

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    April 9, 2017 at 9:52 am #132662
    I'm Super Afraid I've Ruined It

    I’ve been dating this girl, and last night we were texting. At about 2 in the morning I told her I wanted to go to bed, and goodnight. She said goodnight, and then made a flirty comment. I didn’t get what she was saying, because I as tired and sort of had trouble reading at that point, and it didn’t register as being flirty. I made a comment that didn’t really make sense, an then she sent me back “Hmm?” and then I said, “I think I misread your last message. Sorry.” To which she sent said, “Go to sleep dude.” Twice. The same message twice. I feel like she’s upset with me. Should I apologize, or just pretend like it didn’t happen? It doesn’t seem like a big deal, but I’ve ruined potential relationships with less. I also have a habit of being overly apologetic, and she knows it, so I might not look the best if I do it again. Thoughts?

    April 9, 2017 at 1:43 pm #132664

    If it was a genuine mistake, and she really does like you, she will get over it. Might just be worth acknowledging that you were very tired, and make an apologetic but flirty gesture to show her that you are interested?

    April 9, 2017 at 3:05 pm #132667

    I’d like to update this. I texted her about something else, just asking her a question, then quick made an apology. We chatted about the other thing, and she said it wasn’t a big deal. Then we moved on. Part of me is afraid that she thinks I’m a prude now, but at least she doesn’t seem upset. At least not deal breaker upset.

    April 9, 2017 at 6:43 pm #132670

    Don’t stress over it, you’ve apologized and i think it’s fixable

    April 9, 2017 at 7:24 pm #132672

    I don’t think it’s a big deal. You should be fine.

    April 10, 2017 at 3:43 am #132686

    You will be fine