I'm very confused about this girl.. need help.


I'm very confused about this girl.. need help.

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    February 9, 2018 at 5:48 pm #165226
    I'm very confused about this girl.. need help.


    I’m looking for advice with this chick. (25-26 years old) i’ve known about 12 years on/off ..we’ve not had much contact the last 6 years. We have lots of same interst. She’s been dating the same guy since she was 14. They have a child boy and got married 6 months ago.

    out of the blue they got separated and she moved out and into appartment a week ago so she’s single. She started texting me and wanted me to help her with something, and I did, so as “payment” she wanted to make me dinner one day. Then texted me last weekend and asked when I wanted to come visit in her new apparpment. I know She’s always had a thing for me through the years and vice versa.

    We’ve been texting and snapchatting a lot this week and she wanted to check when she did not have the kid so I could come over. suddenly today she’s NOT responding at all to my texts/snaps. Maybe put of by my interest or am I just insecure? Any tips on next move? just wait? I do have the feeling she’s dating/into someone else..

    February 11, 2018 at 6:39 pm #165250

    Sounds like this separation is fairly new and he may have done some fast talking to get her to come back to him. Shoot her a text asking if everything is ok. If she doesn’t respond, she very well could be back with him or is having second thoughts about leaving him. After all, she was with him for a lot of years and he is her baby daddy. You can’t throw that all away in 2 weeks time. Give her space and see what happens. Don’t get hung up on her so quick. That’s a definite turn-off for girls. IMHO