Im with Him, but I him.

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Im with Him, but I him.

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    curiouscutie
    curiouscutie
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    October 7, 2015 at 6:14 pm #86678
    Im with Him, but I him.

    I have been in a relationship, for about 5 months about a month in, i met one of boyfriends friends Max. Max, has his own business and we started hanging out. Well, his friend asked if I could help him with a few things so I did. The few times Max and I talked one on one he asked me about my issues with my boyfriend. I explained, a few of my issues and he said it wasn’t me it was my boyfriend and I have to choose a side if I want to stay or not. I can’t go back and forth and that I definitely wasn’t the problem. I let the conversation go, well, a couple months later my boyfriend and I got into a huge fight we broke up and got Max involved, he said he didn’t want to get into it and we need to talk it out… So, let it there well a couple days later, we got back together and I posted a pic of us on IG. Max liked it, that weekend max came and visited my boyfriend I was there too, when my boyfriend walked away, we asked what happen and why I changed my mind. I think he likes me??? Help

    CalebsGirl
    CalebsGirl
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    October 8, 2015 at 12:54 am #86681

    Umm well since I am a girl, I’ll be writing from a girl’s perspective. Firstly, I don’t want to sound traditional, but I believe that if you and your partner, have problems you should keep it between the both of you and should especially avoid ranting to other guys about it. By you doing so, you may send him mixed signals that you’re interested in him. Max is your bf’s friend and you shouldn’t complain to him about your bf. But you should let Max know that yo love your bf and clearly explain to him what your feelings are towards him in order to avoid any misunderstandings


    wpngrl
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    October 11, 2015 at 7:20 pm #86774

    I would talk to your boyfriend about it. Be honest with him about the problems your have with him, because he should be the one you are talking to in the first place, not other guys. And make it clear to Max how you feel about your boyfriend. If your not 100% sure he likes you, just make a few small comments to get your point across. “Gee I really miss my bf, cant wait to see him.” or “Im so lucky to have such a great bf.” Hopefully he will get the point.