I'm worried we're spending too much time together and ruining our relationship.


I'm worried we're spending too much time together and ruining our relationship.

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    October 16, 2015 at 4:05 pm #87004
    I'm worried we're spending too much time together and ruining our relationship.

    Alright, so I’m a 23 year old and I’ve been seeing this girl for about a week and a half. And we just started dating 2-3 days ago and we have our first date coming up on Tuesday.

    Now, the part that has me worried is the we’ve been hanging out practically every day and so I hear, it’s not healthy for a relationship. I’ve brought this up with her and she said that she really likes hanging out with me and not to worry about our relationship.

    Each time we’ve hung out, we’ve progressed through our relationship; Hugs getting longer, getting physically playful, ect. We’ve just been liking each other more and more. She’s even been inviting me to a lot of stuff as well. Like she literally just invited me to a horror attraction tomorrow as I was typing this! And that we’re going to hang out all weekend. She also said that she really likes me.

    October 16, 2015 at 4:06 pm #87005

    Now, I love hanging out with her. I’m only in school so I have a lot of time to hang out with her and usually am always able to hang out whenever she asks. Which I’ve heard is a turn off, but again, she says she loves it. She’s also really open about our relationship to her friends so it’s not likes she’s not proud.

    So like, are we just crazy and could actually make a relationship work off seeing each other practically everyday? Or am I doomed to eventually be friend-zoned.

    October 17, 2015 at 8:16 pm #87009

    You’re worrying too much. Just go with the flow and try to not evaluated it so much. This is a brand new relationship which shouldn’t require such stress. Are you accustom to your solo life and this is all too fast? Or, are you worried about what others think?