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In my inbox today

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    Caroline
    Caroline
    Participant
    March 21, 2013 at 4:39 pm #26600
    In my inbox today

    Got a message from a guy saying the following:

    “Hey sexy. You’re hot. Can I see more pictures of you? I’ll send some back if you go first ;)”

    …..you gotta be kidding me dude.


    slobeachboy
    Participant
    March 21, 2013 at 6:44 pm #26646

    Actually us guys get almost identically worded e-mails all the time. Only in our case it’s always a generic e-mail sent to thousands of men by some spammer and its meant to eventually lead us to some porn site or something. Fortunately any halfway intelligent guy can tell just from the wording what it is. After all real women simply don’t come on that strong before they even know you. It just doesn’t happen. But I guess there’s just no shortage of horny gullible men out there. I’ve personally deleted countless thousands of these in my lifetime without ever replying to them. And it’s the same with instant messaging. I’ll get some message pop up that says something flirtatious. Then I’ll say, “sorry I have no idea who you are”. And of course the next response makes it pretty obvious that the replies are computer generated and that if I stayed on I would eventually get a request to go to some site to view this girl on a webcam. And although I have never actually taken the bait I have no doubt that it would be some online sex chat that you must pay for. Anyway I would probably trade the occasional crude e-mails that you women sometimes get from clueless men for the thousands of replies us guys get from fake women trying to sell us something. Of course you’re guy could be a scammer as well, hoping that some women will send him sexy photos which he can later use to entice men into some other online scam.
    Anyway just another of the many reasons why I quit online dating years ago.


    RedRobinYumm
    Participant
    March 28, 2013 at 6:28 pm #27244

    Don’t you ever wonder how often guy’s like this end up getting responses?!?? The scary thought of seeing a girl meet up with a guy who’s only interested in one thing. It happen too frequently unfortunately…