In need of some advice


In need of some advice

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    May 10, 2015 at 5:11 pm #78702
    In need of some advice

    Hi, I am a 50 year old Bi man that has just came out to his wife (Hold on to your sox) and she finds it hot that I want to sleep with another man.
    I need some advice as I am new to this new found glory. There is a guy that works in a store that I use almost every day. I find him gorgeous and have no idea how to approach him.
    I’m not even sure he’s gay I just know I want him.
    I have pointed out to my wife and she tells me I have good taste in men.
    As I said he is a lot younger then me.
    How should I handle this?

    Thanks for reading

    July 17, 2016 at 3:31 am #105502

    This sounds really interesting so here is my take on your question. I would start off really slow, become friends before anything becomes sexual. Then gradually talk about jokes, and then dating so when the topic of your ‘plan’ is brought up, it doesn’t come across as unusual or weird. Ask him who’s he’s been dating, then make a joke about who he would sleep with. Maybe that way you can convince him on your idea.

    July 17, 2016 at 1:13 pm #105511

    Maybe ask your wife to find out more about the young man first?