Initiating contact

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Initiating contact

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    m47131
    m47131
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    August 17, 2014 at 9:20 pm #59539
    Initiating contact

    About 2 months ago i went on a date with this girl I met golfing. The date was awkward and she did not seem into it. She seemed nervous and acted a bit distant towards me. The date lasted about an hour and a half. I told her I would call her but never did because I just felt like she wasn’t feeling it for me and instead texted her about 10 days after our date. She did not respond to my first text nor did she respond to my second text message a couple of days later. In my second text message I told her if she didn’t respond that I would not bug her, so I’ve just left it alone for the last 8 weeks. Been with a few girls since but I am still on fire for this girl. Recently she accepted my invitation on LinkedIn, but I know that probably does not really mean squat.

    I want to send her another text and directly ask her out. I’m not really expecting anything. If she does not respond this time I will definitely chalk it up as a loss. Would this come off as being creepy?


    Outlast456
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    September 4, 2014 at 3:22 pm #60689

    Well…not really..just don’t be too pushy. If she didn’t like you, then she wouldn’t have responded to you request. Or maybe she did but she deleted it, if not then thats good. If I were you, I would send something to the line of “Hey, How have you been?” DEFF do NOT just go into asking her out….you want to get to know here “again” before doing that. If you do have the time to speak with her one on one, I would not bring up the past, as this might piss her off, or cause her not to like you “because you are pushy”.