Involved with someone and don't know what it is.

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Involved with someone and don't know what it is.

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    September 28, 2015 at 9:54 pm #86104
    Involved with someone and don't know what it is.

    Long after getting out of a LTR and having no desire to date, I resolved to have a one-time fling. The intent was to find someone to talk to and then if desired, have sex with. I didn’t have high hopes but the guy in question (early 20s) turned out to be nice and funny. Our sexual compatibility was great.

    However. Because I intended it as a one-time thing I didnt honestly think we’d see each other again, even though we both had fun. And so I never specified rules or parameters. But then he contacted me again…

    It’s been a few months and we still meet once in a while for chats and sex. I like it. But what is it? It’s not dating nor FWB. It’s NSA maybe but seems friendlier than that. We talk about work, stuff we’re up to, thoughts and feelings. Not too deep. He is affectionate. I know he’s not my BF. Is he my lover? F buddy?

    What is this? Its not mixed signals but rather my ignorance of them. Is this how young people do sex these days and I am just so out of the loop?

    Spartan117
    Spartan117
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    October 1, 2015 at 8:28 am #86261

    Young people lol I don’t even do that.
    Sounds like a fuck buddy/FWB seems obvious. If you are questioning what is is, I suggest you just ask him straight up. Are you wanting to be serious with him or you just want to continue the friend-and-hook-up thing?
    Ask him to know the real answer.