Is he a gold digger???

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Is he a gold digger???

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    ihrios
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    November 12, 2015 at 4:02 am #88333
    Is he a gold digger???

    Okay im not a materialistic girl im also not a girl who uses guys for their money but this is my issue. Ive been dating this guy for about a little over a month. We go on dates and he usually picks the place which is something i like. But whats been bothering me is that he wont pay for the full date. Dont get me wrong i dont mind paying for my drinks or helping pay the dinner bill but i believe a girl should be courted right? Or is that wrong of me to think? Okay let me just give an example.Last Saturday night we went to dave and busters. He paid for the playing card and the points. We then got a drink each when the bill came he had ask me to help put in for the tip i told him i never carry cash but i had my card and he was “okay fine put you card” it resulted i payed for my drink and he put enough money for his drink. I dont mind it but why is it when i offered to take him to dinner i paid for it fully and he didnt offer to put in for the tip? I honestly dont know what to think


    ihrios
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    November 12, 2015 at 4:04 am #88334

    I just dont even know how to bring this issue up to him without sounding like a total bitch or a gold digger because im not. I spoil people i care about but we are definitely nowhere near that..any helpful insights?


    JD123
    Participant
    November 16, 2015 at 8:40 am #88453

    how old are you both and how many times have you seen each other?

    angela2000
    angela2000
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    February 1, 2016 at 7:19 pm #92588

    Keep on seeing him if you do not mind paying for him. It will probably continue to happen. He could be a gold digger or someone who does not have any money. On the other hand he might have money and want you to pay for stuff.


    Anonymous
    February 17, 2016 at 2:19 am #93737

    maybe