Is he cheating or am I paraniod

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Is he cheating or am I paraniod

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  • CherryBlossomTree
    CherryBlossomTree
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    May 19, 2017 at 10:25 pm #137047
    Is he cheating or am I paraniod

    My boyfriend and I have been together for over two years now. But recently I’ve been getting a strong notion that something is off. He’s always accusing me of cheating when I’m not, I’m finding double silverware in his empty lunch boxes when he comes home, a condom went “missing,” he harasses me about every little thing I do, if I ask a question about anything that concerns him I get: “It’s none of your buisness,” he doesn’t think we should need to “have sex.” The weirdest thing was that when I found the condom missing this morning and confronted him about it, for the rest of the day he was trying to seduce me… after a week of complaining about physics contact not being important. I know I’m not nuts, he’s acting more than suspicious. I talked to him about it and he laughed at me saying I was paranoid. Am I paranoid?

    lovie4you
    lovie4you
    Participant
    May 20, 2017 at 6:45 am #137059

    Not at all, you are not paranoid. It looks like he is pointing out his own faults and I would say he is cheating on you all the symptoms are there. Maybe one of your friends or his friends that you can trust can accidentally run into him and see what happens. I wish you the best.


    Ochoa801
    Participant
    May 20, 2017 at 11:57 am #137061

    Hmm, seems suspect to me.

    Mel4everable
    Mel4everable
    Participant
    May 21, 2017 at 4:57 pm #137090

    Definitely not! Always trust your instincts. He may not be necessarily cheating but something is up.


    just_me
    Participant
    May 22, 2017 at 7:05 pm #137299

    it sounds very suspicious, and I do t think you are paranoid thinking he may be cheating

    richiro
    richiro
    Participant
    May 23, 2017 at 1:34 pm #137399

    all bad signs. sorry to say but i think i agree with your hunches.
    and if he isn’t cheating, at minimum he’s proving himself to be a horrible partner.

    either way i think it’s time to go.