CherryBlossomTreeParticipantMay 19, 2017 at 10:25 pm #137047
My boyfriend and I have been together for over two years now. But recently I’ve been getting a strong notion that something is off. He’s always accusing me of cheating when I’m not, I’m finding double silverware in his empty lunch boxes when he comes home, a condom went “missing,” he harasses me about every little thing I do, if I ask a question about anything that concerns him I get: “It’s none of your buisness,” he doesn’t think we should need to “have sex.” The weirdest thing was that when I found the condom missing this morning and confronted him about it, for the rest of the day he was trying to seduce me… after a week of complaining about physics contact not being important. I know I’m not nuts, he’s acting more than suspicious. I talked to him about it and he laughed at me saying I was paranoid. Am I paranoid?
lovie4youParticipantMay 20, 2017 at 6:45 am #137059
Not at all, you are not paranoid. It looks like he is pointing out his own faults and I would say he is cheating on you all the symptoms are there. Maybe one of your friends or his friends that you can trust can accidentally run into him and see what happens. I wish you the best.
Mel4everableParticipantMay 21, 2017 at 4:57 pm #137090
Definitely not! Always trust your instincts. He may not be necessarily cheating but something is up.
just_meParticipantMay 22, 2017 at 7:05 pm #137299
it sounds very suspicious, and I do t think you are paranoid thinking he may be cheating
richiroParticipantMay 23, 2017 at 1:34 pm #137399
all bad signs. sorry to say but i think i agree with your hunches.
and if he isn’t cheating, at minimum he’s proving himself to be a horrible partner.
either way i think it’s time to go.
RkyMntnHiParticipantMay 28, 2017 at 9:33 pm #137808
Not paranoid at all. I have been in a similar situation. always trust your gut. it never lies once you have some evidence. which you clearly do. If he isnt cheating yet it sounds like hes set a plan in motion. my ex had been cheating on me with three girls and these were all signs. My heart goes out thttp://www.datingadvice.com/wp-login.phpo you girly
mljParticipantMay 29, 2017 at 9:17 am #137825
I agree with the others, it’s not a definite that he’s cheating but there are definitely a lot of red flags. I say go with your gut.
Even if he’s not, you’re not going to be happy in a relationship where you are both constantly doubting each other and making accusations. Its hard to make a call sometimes, but it sounds like you know what needs to happen.
Louie97ParticipantMay 29, 2017 at 1:32 pm #137830
The empty condom wrapper is a definite indication that he’s sleeping around. Sometimes as women we feel as though we are paranoid or being over analytical. However, from my experiences I’ll learnt that even the slightest detection I’ve had about a man playing games has always been right. ALWAYS listen to your intuition.
tom5penceParticipantMay 30, 2017 at 10:51 am #137881
Its not definite but there is definite cause for suspicion
JessCParticipantJune 2, 2017 at 6:51 pm #138358
It is suspicious. I would keep both eyes open.
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