Is he hiding me? 1.5 years dating

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Is he hiding me? 1.5 years dating

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    hellokitty415
    Participant
    January 16, 2014 at 11:30 pm #46061
    Is he hiding me? 1.5 years dating

    So my boyfriend of 1- 1/2 years dating seriously hasn’t introduced me to his family. My family lives 3000+ miles away so that is more understandable, but his family visits close-ish to our town to see relatives and he typically goes to see them there without inviting me along.
    I think its happened 3 or 4 times.
    We also live together and have a dog together, we know all of each others friends, so I sort of wonder why he doesn’t seem motivated it would be nice for me to meet his parents. My own parents (who live 3000 miles away) will be visiting the area in a few months and I plan to have them meet him of course.

    Any ideas on how best to approach this?
    sidenote: also It also seems like my boyfriend doesn’t want to friend me on Facebook. (I recently friended him there and waiting for him to add me) 🙁 He claims to not use facebook much, but he has over 1000 friends so thats crazy.

    At times I wonder if he is hiding me from his family or what?

    thanks!
    -Confused


    Hammerhead
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    January 18, 2014 at 7:02 pm #46143

    I was with a girlfriend for two years and I never once looked at her photos on Facebook, and probably visited her page twice to post something funny. I try to stay away from social media when in relationships. It doesn’t do anything to help the relationship along.

    As far as the family thing, maybe he is insecure about something. Maybe a crazy brother, bad relationship with his father, who knows.. Could be anything. I would just be up front with him about your feelings and see if there’s an explanation for him not wanting to introduce you guys.