Is He Interested?

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Is He Interested?

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    anxiousdater
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    August 24, 2015 at 4:02 pm #84653
    Is He Interested?

    So I met a guy online, pretty normal nowadays. I am a 41 year old single mother for the record, was married for 15 years which ended 3 years ago so dating is still slightly awkward for me.

    We chatted for a few days online before I gave him my text number. Conversation was great, and we seemed to be looking for the same thing – a relationship and not a hookup. We made plans to meet for lunch. Hit it off really well and went for a walk after lunch, ended up spending 4 hours together. We kissed a few times.

    He told me he wanted to see me again and texted me shortly after I left. We then had an hour and a half phone call late that night which he initiated. He asked me if I was free Saturday night and I was so we made plans and I ended up at his house and we hung out for 5 hours. Yep we had sex within pretty much a half hour of me getting there, which some will say I should not have done that but I very comfortable with my sexuality and we were both extremely into it…..


    anxiousdater
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    August 24, 2015 at 4:08 pm #84655

    …..it was definitely rather good sex I will say. Afterwards we hung out, watched a movie, cuddled on the couch and talked, it was all very comfortable for the most part. He walked me to my car when I left. Within 5 minutes of me getting home he sent me a text to ask if I made it home safe, very cute I thought but me being doubtful of the whole dating scene I still had my doubts whether this was just a hookup or booty call so hence the name anxious dater lol.

    So this was Saturday Night and its now Monday evening. We have chatted through text since then. I have not made any reference to seeing him again as I have found in the past I have come across needy or anxious (again username), so I am taking a step back but not so far back that im coming across as cold. Sunday morning he texted me. I was at a pool party and he made a comment about swimming would be nice. I said “wanna come haha just kidding” his response was “haha maybe not yet”. He also made a comment that he enjoyed…..


    anxiousdater
    Participant
    August 25, 2015 at 8:21 am #84656

    our night together, sex was good. I said I thought we meshed well and he said “so far so good”. So this sounds good right? He has initiated all of the texting conversation but I dont make him wait for a response, thats just stupid. On saturday night I brought him a bag of chips that he liked and we were joking around about getting him another one and he made a comment that he would share it with me, so another cute comment.

    So the thing is its Monday evening now and he STILL has not asked me out for a third date. I also have noticed hes been online, well and I have been too even tho im not talking to anyone because I do not serial date.

    So contact has been very good still, a few comments that make him sound like hes not a jerk, we definitely clicked and have quite a bit in common. I dont think I have come across as needy and I have my own life and I enjoy it. Am I being too anxious/impatient? I dont want to ask him out because then how do I really know if it he really interested.