IS HE INTERESTED OR JUST BEING FRIENDLY?

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IS HE INTERESTED OR JUST BEING FRIENDLY?

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    lilyvalley
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    March 16, 2016 at 1:57 pm #95842
    IS HE INTERESTED OR JUST BEING FRIENDLY?

    I live in the same apartments as his grandma. He comes here everyday. I saw him with his friend in his car and when I got closer I saw him say something to his friend and as I got closer he looked down at his phone smiling/ grinning and his friend was staring at me? What does this mean? I’ve also seen him a out and he looked into my eyes about 6 seconds. We’ve had an argument and not talking now, because he’d make excuses to talk to me and helped me out with study materials when I didn’t ask him. I told him if a guy is interested shouldn’t beat around the bush and that he can’t have a gf to be interested in me(he’s with someone but Idk if it’s serious) and he told me almost a year ago that he was happy with her and he’s not interested in me. But he’s always around and always trying to steal glances and looks to see if he can see me, i also have a gut feeling he likes me?


    IcePawsOnAWaffle
    Participant
    March 17, 2016 at 4:06 am #95878

    I think he liked you. As you claim he was clearly trying to find a way to get to know you (“he’d make excuses to talk to me and helped me out with study materials when I didn’t ask him”). While I agree that ‘beating around the bush’ is pointless, I think you missed the chance. You see, even if he’s a confident and outgoing person, he may not be the type to just ask out girls without getting to know them a little first. I’m kinda on his side on that point.

    The issue is that he has a girlfriend now, and you claim that he says he is happy. So don’t try to break them up. However, just because he has a girlfriend doesn’t mean he stopped thinking you were pretty. People like to look at good-looking people, and to him, you’re one of them.

    Just stay low key for now and try to look for another guy. If he ends up breaking up with the girl and starts to attempt to talk to you again, let him. It’s not beating around the bush, it’s communicating.


    lilyvalley
    Participant
    March 17, 2016 at 1:13 pm #95931

    He had a gf throughout this whole thing


    NashTNTeacher
    Participant
    June 24, 2016 at 2:22 am #103979

    Sounds to me like he’s interested in you.

    brainy
    brainy
    Participant
    June 25, 2016 at 1:10 pm #104060

    If he already said he’s not interested in you, he probably isn*t


    MisteryPrincess
    Participant
    June 26, 2016 at 3:39 am #104091

    I think he’s definitely interested in you