Is he into me or am I wasting my time ?


Is he into me or am I wasting my time ?

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    July 26, 2015 at 7:46 pm #83275
    Is he into me or am I wasting my time ?

    I recently got on a dating website because I was moving to Jersey . I started talking to this handsome guy who turned out to be very nice to talk to. We exchange numbers, talk every day even though it takes him about an hour to answer my text messages, I have always figured it was because he works long shifts during the day and get tired at night. He then asked me if I was excited to move to jersey and I said yes because it was the beginning of a new life. He said “that’s great and I wouldn’t mind Being a part of all this” it put a smile on my face but I didn’t want to get too excited because we have never met before.
    Few days later I told him I was coming to jersey to fix something with my university and we could meet at the same occasion. He said its a great idea and that would be nice. But few days after he said he wasn’t sure to see me anymore because he is very busy during the week and asked me to stay till the weekend because he will have free time by then. IS HE AVOIDING ME?

    August 3, 2015 at 12:44 pm #83507

    Hi Lola, was this after you already met in person that he seems to be blowing you off? It could just be that he met someone else but rather than just tell you that he’s giving what he thinks is a white lie.

    August 3, 2015 at 5:13 pm #83516

    You should try asking him straight out whether or not he’s interested. This way he will know you have sexual desire for him, as well as finding out whether or not he really is interested.

    August 6, 2015 at 1:08 am #83640

    He is still offering to see you at the weekend. See if you can get a fixed date on one of them days. If he won’t do that then I wouldn’t bother waiting around.

    August 6, 2015 at 11:37 pm #83681

    He’s flirting, but texting has ruined the art of love. Contact is important. If he isn’t physical trying to see you it isn’t worth it

    August 9, 2015 at 2:25 am #83757

    If he really was interested he would make some time to see you.

    August 9, 2015 at 10:29 am #83762

    their is nothing like that lola…..just try to spend some time with each other and everything wil be fine after few days…

    August 10, 2015 at 8:20 am #83722

    Dear Lolaharmony,

    Actions speak louder than words. so if the guy say something and his actions don’t reflect that, I am afraid you could say NEXT!