Is he regretful . I don't understand how to fix this!

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Is he regretful . I don't understand how to fix this!

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    devistated1228
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    November 13, 2015 at 3:47 am #88413
    Is he regretful . I don't understand how to fix this!

    My ex left one week ago. We were /are engaged. We’ve been together for 5 years and the hurt from our past is what made us an unstoppable team. Recently, he received a promotion and we were finally on a road of financial stability. With this I believe he has gotten a taste of freedom that he feels I hold him back from . The last month of our relationship I was very down on myself not once thinking it would push him away. Because we were in the middle of building our lives together , our names are on vehicles and such together. So this makes the “no contact” rule nearly impossible. He saw me 2 days ago and told me how beautiful I looked and how he knows this can’t be the end for us but at the same time he is being very put-offish. How do I show him that the only thing he’s wrestling with is himself and how do I make him miss me. I think he already is just a little but not enough to come get me back. Also, he’s aware that I’m growing despite how down on myself I had been. What do I do?


    thirtynine
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    November 14, 2015 at 12:43 pm #88481

    the thing is this…………….When a relationship is built on on hurt and pain and one of the two receives something ( raise) and it temporarily takes away the focus of the pain and hurt, The one who is still hurt is no longer needed to take away the pain.


    JD123
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    November 16, 2015 at 8:41 am #88462

    do you know WHY he left? has he been supportive so far when you’v been feeling down? has he told you how he’s felt about you feeling down/? I know some guys will feel too pressured or can’t be bothered with that sort of emotion going on. the fact he says you look beautiful is a brilliant sign. however hard it might be, try and pick yourself up. arrange to meet up with him but blow him away with something fantastic – too his liking, whether it be a candle lit dinner or something, just to show you care that much. only try to arrange it once you’re ready for it though