Is he shy?

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Is he shy?

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    arianna90
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    December 11, 2015 at 5:01 am #89944
    Is he shy?

    Hello. Last week me and my friend went to a bar. I saw a guy and I decided to stare at him (not in a creepy way) to get his attention. It’s not like me to do such things. In fact it was the first time to do so. He was looking at me too and did nothing. Anyway i went back on Sunday and it turns out he was the bartender at this bar. My friend suggested to stare at him again and so I did.He was looking at me when he was not busy. At a moment that the bar was not too crowdy he went out of the bar and started wandering around us. My friend went to the toilet and he came next to me. When I turned my head to look at him he nervously turned away. My friend (who is experienced) is convinced that he likes me. Is he shy? What should I do? Thank you in advance.


    ironmaiden
    Participant
    December 12, 2015 at 8:57 pm #89990

    It could because he’s a shy guy but I think he can’t flirt cause he work at that bar. He can get fire if he flirt with a customer. Go talk to him and ask him if you can met in other place. You will have your answer.


    Anonymous
    December 13, 2015 at 6:48 am #89992

    Never such a situation never encountered


    newtothegame
    Participant
    December 13, 2015 at 11:34 am #89999

    As a guy, i can say that he’s probably shy. He’s trying to see if he can get any attention out of you, to judge your interest in him. If you trying starting a convo you’ll have your answer


    Vector
    Participant
    December 17, 2015 at 9:53 am #90207

    Interesting question. My immediate impression is that he’s shy, but generally speaking shyness isn’t a quality I’ve seen in a lot of bartenders. It’s either that or what ironmaiden suggested.


    lauren52398
    Participant
    December 17, 2015 at 8:25 pm #90237

    definitely just a shy guy

    kaustavsinha
    kaustavsinha
    Participant
    December 18, 2015 at 9:36 am #90250

    I am a very shy guy myself! But, I am very open in the internet world lol! I feel that, if you like him, you must approach him! Somehow convince him. Maybe, you can pay the bill directly to him, and in the menu bill, you can give your contact details or so; might be risky, but worth trying! Lol! Take care.