Is it a good idea to rekindle a past love when in long distance?

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Is it a good idea to rekindle a past love when in long distance?

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    Wanderlust22
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    September 1, 2015 at 12:09 pm #85006
    Is it a good idea to rekindle a past love when in long distance?

    I dated this guy in 2013, long distance for about six months. Then he just stopped texting. He reached out on my birthday in 2014. And we now wish each other on birthdays/holidays. Every time, he always asks if I m back in my hometown where he lives.
    When we used to go out, he s always very gentlemanly. A little shy too. We took things very slow. There was so sex. We were both very guarded with our feelings. Should I try rekindle something? I always felt like he’s the one. But I’m not sure he feels the same. He only ever said I’m “nice and cute”. Help! I feel like going to my hometown and asking him if he’d like to catch up. I thought I could just let it rest, but I’m feeling more and more that he’s the one. Everyone that I’ve been introduced to, four out of six guys names start with the same letter as him. Help me reason! Do I go see him? Talk some sense into me.. Please!


    Kellyrose
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    September 6, 2015 at 1:55 pm #85194

    Is the letter J? Not that it is important but I havery a long list of exes all starting with a J.
    Regarding the long distance relationshiof I think it is important to know how far apart you are and how often you could meet and if there is a chance to live closer someday. I did one year with 12 hours train between us but I always knew he will be back after. But I think if there was no end in sight I would have given up.


    Anonymous
    September 6, 2015 at 2:12 pm #85195

    yes, but it depends if there is what we called love then rekindle past relationship is possible and can be happen