Is it lust or does he like me for me?

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Is it lust or does he like me for me?

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  • Chlo
    Participant
    November 15, 2016 at 9:42 am #117340
    Is it lust or does he like me for me?

    There’s this boy in my class and we were just having a fun talk with my teacher and he was saying he hates being touched and everything and she was like “Oh I know I hate being touched especially by my husband cause he hurts when he touches.” And then he was just like “I was gonna say something but we’re in a church so I won’t” and he gave me a dirty look like he wanted to do something with me. But he usually gives me sweet loving glances and this was just different. And before my teacher said she hated being touched she was saying how many kids she had then she said she hates her husband touching her? And then he comes out and says that! Does he want me for me or does he want me for my body because I’ve never seen him staring at anything else except for my face and eyes?i forgot to mention he is a huge Christian and so am I.

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    Chlo
    Participant
    December 15, 2016 at 4:41 pm #120342

    What should I do?


    Chlo
    Participant
    January 14, 2017 at 4:33 pm #123062

    HELP!!!!!!


    multisamsami
    Participant
    January 15, 2017 at 3:12 pm #123070

    Hi, based on what you said, we can’t really tell if he likes you or not. It may have been just a joke. Do you guys talk to each other? Is he asking questions about yourself, like he wants to know more about you? Does he try to impress you, like he dresses nice around you or tries to make you laugh? Or maybe he’s shy, then maybe ask him out.

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    MizzKat15
    MizzKat15
    Participant
    January 16, 2017 at 8:55 am #123065

    Hi! I’m just trying to understand your situation. If the boy hates being touched why would he want a sexual relationship with you or with anyone for that matter, at least right now. Sorry that is what I am grasping from your post. Sweetie I think you might be looking to much into the look he gave you, perhaps you might be misinterpreting the look. If anything you can always ask him if he is interested in you. Also if he is a huge Christian as you say he would like you for you. Hope I helped. Best of luck!

    richiro
    richiro
    Participant
    January 18, 2017 at 10:38 pm #123612

    yea.. there isn’t much to go on and there really isn’t enough history or enough that went on in the convo to know whta is going on. sorry. we’ll need a lot more than this and yhour ineractions together to know what’s going on.