Is it my fault? Please help


Is it my fault? Please help

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    August 15, 2017 at 2:50 am #145510
    Is it my fault? Please help

    So this morning me and my boyfriend wanted t have sex and when I went t get a condom, I found out that the condoms where all slightly opened, so I did not want to take any chances.
    When I told him he god mad and couldnt even look me in the eye. Mind you, just before I went for the condom he was very happy with me and very touchy. When I told him he litterely gave me hus back and told me that he’s going to sleep. He is a very stubborn man and I tried to reason and talk to him in a calm manner but even though I knew he was awake, he justkept his eyes closed and ignored me. I gelt broken and started crying infront of him and he still ignored me.
    What shall I do? This is not the first time he’s done this. Another time we where having some fun and remembered that I didnt have any condoms at home so I told him that we ran out. I even suggedted that we can still bave fun together even without sex. He simply moved away from me and ignored me.
    Am I going crazy? Please help

    August 15, 2017 at 6:31 am #145515

    Well it sounds like from your story that he is just in it for the sex. If he did really love you then he would go get some or just deal with it and suggest other things to do. He definitely shouldn’t shut down and ignore you unless he’s bipolar then that’s a whole different can of worms. Anyways its not your fault from the sound of it, sex isn’t everything.

    August 15, 2017 at 12:38 pm #145593

    Yeah.. it’s not really YOUR responsibility to have condoms at the ready and a steady supply. For your own protection it’s good to keep some around especially if you are single/dating.

    i’m curious.. why were ‘all the condoms slightly opened” already? What the hell?

    You are in the right here. He should know the rules about protection/sex and especially in your relationship that yo require protection to have sex – and if he isn’t taking care of that side of things – he has only himself to blame for not gettting any sex.

    The choice is really up to him. If he continues to be irresponsible and then pout when you can’t have sex – well then maybe he’s not mature enough to be with you.